I know you have lot of things to achieve,
Still I would say, “you will”, when you won’t believe.
Your scope of success is so big,
Your tensions are also realistic,
You think no one can think of how you feel,
But I feel you cannot think of how I deal,
With the feelings I have for you,
Despite of discord, your respect in my heart is always due.
You say you feel that I love you more but at times act suspicious,
How I may not protect, as for me you are so precious?
You rule my heart for being true soul and not by being smart,
But… I feel sorry for myself in failing to be ‘Queen of your heart’.
Why? Here is my reply.
My aim is to win your heart in a way that you cann’t think of being away,
Mind it, not by holding you tightly instead by being in your thoughts slightly,
Like the way you are in mine, but don’t worry I am still fine.
Yes, I am there in your mind but as a responsibility as everybody undertakes,
Not as a beloved for whom everything is done with a sense of love as all it takes.
I feel, you see the people and intuit the best in every way, as are they,
Also analyzing love philosophies of people and think of loving me in the best way.
Dear I have loved you and not them all.
Whether you succeed or you fall.
I know you are different but you don’t know it,
God will always be there for you; trust me a bit.
I know you feel free and happy when out with your friends,
Is it for the sake of friendship and enjoying life’s normal trend?
Else, is it for sparing yourself from responsibilities?
As it includes your struggles plus conflicts with me driving in more difficulties.
I wished for delightful things for us and I always keep juggling & trying,
Those moments of conflicts hurt a lot as they give sign that still you are not mine.
I would look forward for your silent promises in my lifetime,
That you are forever and ever mine.
I usually avoid telling this to you,
As again your feeling of being harassed is due,
But somehow wanted to make my heart clear,
Without fruitless arguments & shedding tears.
Just be the way you are & mark progress lines on your life chart,
And I’ll strive through life alongwith a desire to be ‘Queen of your heart’.
I know you will be you,
But that’s the way I am.
Friday, May 1, 2009
A Thought Which Made Me To Think.
Usually things are to be used and people are to be loved, but the problem in today's world is that people are used and things are loved.
Director’s Note of “U Me Aur Hum”
Has anyone of you seen a bollywood movie by the name, "U Me Aur Hum".
Usually I do go through websites of movies which interests me more. Here I got to read the Director's Note, which is worth sharing is given below.
People keep asking me how I decided that this was the right time to direct my own film. To be honest, I don’t really know if this is the right time or not but I know that this is a story I wanted to tell. A story I believed in, and felt strongly about. As they say, one from the heart.
Why this particular story? I can list many reasons, but the most important, and the primary reason for me to want to make this film, is its positivity. I have noticed that people these days have become more cynical and less optimistic than before. They tend to naturally have a negative outlook about things. Especially with regards to love, relationship, feelings, marriage, the works.
In today’s scientific world, everyone seems to be looking for tangible justifications for things they do. Even with regards to love, people, spend hours theorizing about chemical reactions in the body, the impact of hormones and other such clinical things. My question is- where has all our romance gone? Why this obsession with rationale? Why do we hesitate to accept that it is possible, that deep within, one soul makes a connection with another-instinctively, impulsively, immediately?
Love at first sight, happy marriages, soulmates, these are concepts I believe in. I know that they exist, and as a result, they are important elements of my film.
A lot of people question the institution of marriage, or blame it when problems arise. I feel that in a marriage, or any relationship that matter, problems are inevitable, and giving up should be our last option. However, an increasing number of people just prefer to give up at the first sign of trouble. Relationships, especially marriages, deserve better.
The fact of the matter is that any relationship needs work. A huge amount of effort is needed to keep a relationship going strong. And if love is the basis of the relationship, making this effort comes naturally, and is enjoyable. When this effort to maintain the magic in one’s relationship is inadequate, cracks begin to appear. But the concept of marriage is not to be blamed for this. The people in it are. Because solutions always exist, but people just tend to concentrate on the problems alone.
Now I sound like I am preaching! This film is not made with the intention of being a sermon about relationships. Not it is made to prove my talent as a director. And it is definitely not my intention to change the way people think or live their lives. A film is meant to entertain you. To give you your money’s worth. To give you a good time, at least as long as it lasts. And that is what I have set out to do. I hope I succeed.
And in addition to entertaining you, if it makes you spare a thought about the state of your relationship, or encourages you to improve it, then my success will be so much greater.
Usually I do go through websites of movies which interests me more. Here I got to read the Director's Note, which is worth sharing is given below.
People keep asking me how I decided that this was the right time to direct my own film. To be honest, I don’t really know if this is the right time or not but I know that this is a story I wanted to tell. A story I believed in, and felt strongly about. As they say, one from the heart.
Why this particular story? I can list many reasons, but the most important, and the primary reason for me to want to make this film, is its positivity. I have noticed that people these days have become more cynical and less optimistic than before. They tend to naturally have a negative outlook about things. Especially with regards to love, relationship, feelings, marriage, the works.
In today’s scientific world, everyone seems to be looking for tangible justifications for things they do. Even with regards to love, people, spend hours theorizing about chemical reactions in the body, the impact of hormones and other such clinical things. My question is- where has all our romance gone? Why this obsession with rationale? Why do we hesitate to accept that it is possible, that deep within, one soul makes a connection with another-instinctively, impulsively, immediately?
Love at first sight, happy marriages, soulmates, these are concepts I believe in. I know that they exist, and as a result, they are important elements of my film.
A lot of people question the institution of marriage, or blame it when problems arise. I feel that in a marriage, or any relationship that matter, problems are inevitable, and giving up should be our last option. However, an increasing number of people just prefer to give up at the first sign of trouble. Relationships, especially marriages, deserve better.
The fact of the matter is that any relationship needs work. A huge amount of effort is needed to keep a relationship going strong. And if love is the basis of the relationship, making this effort comes naturally, and is enjoyable. When this effort to maintain the magic in one’s relationship is inadequate, cracks begin to appear. But the concept of marriage is not to be blamed for this. The people in it are. Because solutions always exist, but people just tend to concentrate on the problems alone.
Now I sound like I am preaching! This film is not made with the intention of being a sermon about relationships. Not it is made to prove my talent as a director. And it is definitely not my intention to change the way people think or live their lives. A film is meant to entertain you. To give you your money’s worth. To give you a good time, at least as long as it lasts. And that is what I have set out to do. I hope I succeed.
And in addition to entertaining you, if it makes you spare a thought about the state of your relationship, or encourages you to improve it, then my success will be so much greater.
Fast Life
God speaks to us in many ways.
A young and successful executive was travelling down a neighbourhood street, going a bit too fast in his new car. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.
As his car passed, across a school lane a brick smashed into the carry side door! He slammed on the brakes and stopped with a sudden jerk. He jumped out of the car, grabbed a kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting, "What was that all about and who do you think you are? Just what the heck are you doing? Building up a head of steam he went on. "That's a new car and the repairs are going to cost a lot of money! Why did you do it?"
"Please, mister, please. I'm sorry, I tried to stop many cars but to of no use. I had no other way I was forced to throw the brick ultimately, pleaded the youngster, tears were dripping down the boy's chin as he pointed around the parked car. "It's my brother," he said. "He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up." Sobbing, the boy asked the man, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me."
Moved beyond words, the businessman to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He lifted the young man back into the wheelchair and took out his handkerchief and wiped the scrapes and cuts, checking to see that everything was going to be okay.
"Thank you and May God bless you," the grateful child said to him. The man then watched the little boy push his brother down the sidewalk toward their home. It was a long walk back to his car, a long, slow walk. He never did repair the side door. He kept the dent to remind him not to go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention.
God whispers in your soul and speaks to your heart. Sometimes when you don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at you.
It's your choice: Listen to the whisper - or wait for the brick.
A young and successful executive was travelling down a neighbourhood street, going a bit too fast in his new car. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.
As his car passed, across a school lane a brick smashed into the carry side door! He slammed on the brakes and stopped with a sudden jerk. He jumped out of the car, grabbed a kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting, "What was that all about and who do you think you are? Just what the heck are you doing? Building up a head of steam he went on. "That's a new car and the repairs are going to cost a lot of money! Why did you do it?"
"Please, mister, please. I'm sorry, I tried to stop many cars but to of no use. I had no other way I was forced to throw the brick ultimately, pleaded the youngster, tears were dripping down the boy's chin as he pointed around the parked car. "It's my brother," he said. "He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up." Sobbing, the boy asked the man, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me."
Moved beyond words, the businessman to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He lifted the young man back into the wheelchair and took out his handkerchief and wiped the scrapes and cuts, checking to see that everything was going to be okay.
"Thank you and May God bless you," the grateful child said to him. The man then watched the little boy push his brother down the sidewalk toward their home. It was a long walk back to his car, a long, slow walk. He never did repair the side door. He kept the dent to remind him not to go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention.
God whispers in your soul and speaks to your heart. Sometimes when you don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at you.
It's your choice: Listen to the whisper - or wait for the brick.
Love Ethics
The great secret is that if you decide to fall in love, your heart will follow.
Love isn’t something discovered and sealed in an instant; rather, it’s something that develops, deepens and strengthens through shared experiences. The more conversations you have and events you experience the deeper in love you’ll fall. In addition to becoming one spirit through shared spiritual goals, you also become one mind through shared memories and one heart through shared joys and pain.
Everyone searches for perfection before committing but love can’t precede commitment. Sure, you can be strongly attracted before commitment. You can be “in like”. But you aren’t yet in love. Think of it. As it is about sharing your life, you choose a person who seems worthy and likely, and then the two of you deeply in love grow building a life together.
Sometimes usual issues intimidate the roots of commitment of growing together and the magic wears off leaving you wonder why love always seems to fail and where the passion goes. Learn to be active in governing our passions sometimes, rather than being governed by them always. Have some respect for yourself and make yourself put a little effort into it. Nothing good comes easily.
Ofcourse it takes two to nurture relationship, but first of all its about ‘YOU’ as a person and about your choices of being a person who loves or a person who wants to be loved at times.
We have power to nurture love in our hearts, if only we set our minds to it. Those who fail to see this, I believe, have lost faith in their own basic ability to grow as human beings, to change and improve.
Love is an amazing blessing, but it takes to work.
When we love another we give him or her our attention; we attend to that person’s growth.
Love isn’t something discovered and sealed in an instant; rather, it’s something that develops, deepens and strengthens through shared experiences. The more conversations you have and events you experience the deeper in love you’ll fall. In addition to becoming one spirit through shared spiritual goals, you also become one mind through shared memories and one heart through shared joys and pain.
Everyone searches for perfection before committing but love can’t precede commitment. Sure, you can be strongly attracted before commitment. You can be “in like”. But you aren’t yet in love. Think of it. As it is about sharing your life, you choose a person who seems worthy and likely, and then the two of you deeply in love grow building a life together.
Sometimes usual issues intimidate the roots of commitment of growing together and the magic wears off leaving you wonder why love always seems to fail and where the passion goes. Learn to be active in governing our passions sometimes, rather than being governed by them always. Have some respect for yourself and make yourself put a little effort into it. Nothing good comes easily.
Ofcourse it takes two to nurture relationship, but first of all its about ‘YOU’ as a person and about your choices of being a person who loves or a person who wants to be loved at times.
We have power to nurture love in our hearts, if only we set our minds to it. Those who fail to see this, I believe, have lost faith in their own basic ability to grow as human beings, to change and improve.
Love is an amazing blessing, but it takes to work.
When we love another we give him or her our attention; we attend to that person’s growth.
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