The great secret is that if you decide to fall in love, your heart will follow.
Love isn’t something discovered and sealed in an instant; rather, it’s something that develops, deepens and strengthens through shared experiences. The more conversations you have and events you experience the deeper in love you’ll fall. In addition to becoming one spirit through shared spiritual goals, you also become one mind through shared memories and one heart through shared joys and pain.
Everyone searches for perfection before committing but love can’t precede commitment. Sure, you can be strongly attracted before commitment. You can be “in like”. But you aren’t yet in love. Think of it. As it is about sharing your life, you choose a person who seems worthy and likely, and then the two of you deeply in love grow building a life together.
Sometimes usual issues intimidate the roots of commitment of growing together and the magic wears off leaving you wonder why love always seems to fail and where the passion goes. Learn to be active in governing our passions sometimes, rather than being governed by them always. Have some respect for yourself and make yourself put a little effort into it. Nothing good comes easily.
Ofcourse it takes two to nurture relationship, but first of all its about ‘YOU’ as a person and about your choices of being a person who loves or a person who wants to be loved at times.
We have power to nurture love in our hearts, if only we set our minds to it. Those who fail to see this, I believe, have lost faith in their own basic ability to grow as human beings, to change and improve.
Love is an amazing blessing, but it takes to work.
When we love another we give him or her our attention; we attend to that person’s growth.
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